I've been suffering from premature ejaculation for over a year now. I keep cumming after 2-3 strokes acter penetration. Any tips to cure this? Its not fun for both of us...

 

Mastaurbate before you start sex.Might take the edge off.Or think of something disgusting to put you off

 

jerk off beforehand. 2 hours is usually perfect. make sure to completely drain your balls. your woman will do a better job of this than you will be able to.

 

Eat lots of potatoes.

 

I don't suffer from that but this is a tip I got n I tried it and it made me last longer, like everyone says masterbate first and when you finish drain all the cum and give the head a nice pinch not so hard and push the shaft down so it'll be pointing down for like 5 seconds, try it hopefully it works for you!

 

Stick a plug in it. Sorry I have the opposite annoyance but I thought both were age related. I would make hay while the sun shined and try and be more inventive before and afterwards, then before and afterwards, and so on, if possible.

 

Just fuck her twice?

 

When I first started having sex I would cum in 30 seconds or less. It didn't matter if I went slow or hard, I would cum way too soon. I tried everything I could think of to last longer. Jerking off before didn't help much, even if I did it several times. I tried fucking her again, a few minutes after cumming but it didn't help much. Different positions or different places didn't help either. I fucked my girlfriend eight times in one afternoon and the eighth time I lasted maybe one minute. The first thing I found to help out was having a lot of sex, several times a day, everyday possible. It was my girlfriend's idea to try this and after a few weeks of fucking five or more times per day, six days a week, I would last a minute or two on the first fuck and up to five minutes after that. After a few months, I could last more than five minutes the first time and way longer after that. Fucking different women helps also, I used to cum too fast the first few times with a new girl. After fucking bunch of different women, it wasn't so much of a problem, but it took me years to get there. A few other things that may help: Condoms reduce sensitivity, the thicker the better, extended pleasure condoms might help, but they might make your dick numb. Thinking about something no-sexual, anything to get your mind off of that juicy pussy that your dick is inside. Drinking could help, just not too much. Try working yourself out of breath first, when I'm gasping for air I find it difficult to cum.
That's what helped me out, it took some time, but I no longer cum too soon.

 

Before taking the advice of fucking everybody you see, all day, every day, research online. Google can be helpful. If the same info is found repeatedly on different websites, it probably has some accuracy. In my experience, after the initial drain, the penis doesn't get back to that same hardness as it has in the beginning. So, you probably would be better off to find something to assist the problem, such as an exercise.

 

Fucking often actualy helps. At least I think it did for me as well, as it did for chunks1. I didn't fuck that many times a day, but we (my first sex partner and I) fucked daily, and I got better with practice. I also got a good set of begginer advices on how to pleasure a girl without using my cock. That was more help long term, than being able to fuck non-stop for an hour ever would. And learning those things, helped me feel more confident, sexy, boosted my self esteem, and with that - my cock gradualy started to work with me.

Thinking of non-sexual things was counter-productive for me. It would't delay orgasm by much at times, and I'd loose erection other times.

Masturbating beforehand didn't do much for me as well. It would delay how quicly I get hard and ready, not the orgasm after I'd start fucking. In fact, weirdly enough, I recomend running an experiment, where you don't masturbate at all. If don't see your partner that day, don't jerk off. I would masturbate on the days I was alone. Multiple times. And I'd jerk off on days we fucked. Not allways, but I'd think why not, might last longer with her then... The effects of stopping and only getting off with her for a while where noticable improvements.

I do think my premature ejeculation issue was mostly psychological, and things that boosted my sexuality, my self confidence, ect... seem to have helped the most. That, and spooning. I'm sure it's different for different people, but when my first girl and I discovered spooning position, after we got comfortable in it, I lasted for an hour and a half, it was so good, the time just flew by for both of us. And for a while I was able to do 45 minutes in spooning position easy. I have thoughts on why it was spooning that worked, but all I can say is try it. And other positions as well.

And all of that is still shadowed by an open, willing to help and patient partner.