Anal play is having something of a moment what with large butts enjoying a golden age in porn and with attitudes towards it generally changing as our perception of sex and sexuality evolves.
An advanced part of anal play is prostate massaging for men, which when done correctly gives men almost an entirely different type of orgasm, incredibly strong and often compared to hitting the G-Spot or an intense clitoral orgasm in women. So how does one get into it?
Pregame
The anus is full of nerve-endings and extremely sensitive and for this reason an erogenous zone where men and women alike enjoy stimulation. If you want to explore prostate massaging maybe get going with some some very basic anal play, stroking the putting your fingers in, and then some perineum (yep that area between the sack and anus) massage. This can often be enough for most men, but for those who are quite into anal play a prostate massage is game-changer (if you didn’t know, now you know).
Finding the P-Spot
As elusive as the G-Spot (but admittedly requiring a little more work), the P-spot is located an inch inside the anal tract and towards the front wall towards the penis. It’s got a slightly different texture to the surrounding skin, having ridges and is often described as a golf ball or walnut.
A good way of thinking about it is like an internal G-spot when it comes to stimulation as well! What feels good is a stroking motion, circular motions, but of course what works best are circular movements and stroking, and if you figure out what you want yourself you’ll be able to get that special someone to do the same but better.
Lube, Lube, More Lube
Should go without saying but lest we forget, there are some basic things people should do before they engage in any type of anal play, predominantly trim your nails and use LOTS of lube. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t generate its own lubrication to facilitate penetration, so this is up to to you and your partner to pay attention to. What’s more of course the area is full of bacteria and getting nicks on the anal wall may be more at risk of infection than elsewhere.
It may sound complicated, but as with all things sex-related the best thing is to give it a go – on yourself or with company – and figure out just what tickles your fancy (or your prostate).
