If your man came to you and said they were not happy with their sex life. They were not happy with the quantity or that it had become routine and a bit dull. How would you respond? I would love to hear honest answers.

So many men here complain about quality and quantity and I have always heard everyone say have you communicated that to her. Imagine your man telling you that. How would you respond as no how would you feel.

 

If your partner isn't happy about any aspect of your relationship and you're not even slightly aware of their unhappiness, that's a symptom, right there.

 

My partner did that. In the beginning stages of our relationship, he told me that he felt that I was lazy in bed, and seemed not enjoy sex at all. I wasn't angry or upset, but more embarrassed and confused. It took about a week before I could talk to him about it, but we discussed it in depth. Long story short, I wasn't confident in expressing my sexuality, and once I was able to admit that we were able to work through it.

 

Me too my hubby and I had been together for a long time and I agreed with him it was getting stale and not often enough. We spiced things up. Turns out I am a natural sub and he loved that. It work until he got sick. So gave me some great memories

Big thing is communication because it can be sympathetic of a bigger problem

 

If my husband came to me and told me that? I'd tell him he is" FUCKING NUTS!" I have never turned him down in anything he's asked me to do to him , me or anybody else!

 

things got a bit routine with my ex until we started talking dirty while fucking telling each other what we were going to do or what we were feeling or enjoyed worked for a while

 

The problem when your partner wants you to say they are atf lover. In fact you are #10... It helps to reverse roles and make your so take the lead... A journal is a great tool to document real relationship and a reminder... That is why bff is great some verity that shows you are thinking ... A thong in lunch sack can get a guys attention and womens reminder

 

If he has ideas about how he wants to spice things up, I'm willing to listen, but it all depends on what those things are. More than anything, I would want to discuss our relationship out of bed, and see if our sex problems are just a symptom of something deeper.

 

The bedroom is not the place to resolve non sex problems. When the guy can callthe bed off limits the woman has to clean her act. Guys get tired sex is used as a tool.

 

I'm game. Massage first the dinner and a hot bath. No farting in the bath tub please

 

First of all, if he was dissatisfied in any way I think I would know, long before he told me. But, if it did happen I believe that we'd talk about it and I would try harder to please him. I would probably do things I didn't like, if it meant pleasing my partner. Putting all humility aside, I can't see it happening. No one since my first husband has ever complained about my sexuality.

 

takes many nails to build crib but one screw to fill it.

 

Well my Ex told me that he had no idea how good sex could be, refering to his soon to be wife.

He never told me when he was tearing my cloths off and fucking me over the kitchen table or getting a sunday morning blowjob to go with the breakfast in bed that our sex life was shit though.

I would be shocked if it happened and think he had me mixed up with some one else.LOL !

No seriously, I would like to think I would be able to sit down talk about it and see what ways we could make things better.

 

I would dump his ass and move on....

 

If he said that, I would be very surprised to say the least.

 

Sounds to me like he found a new toy and just couldn't be honest

 

Once I picked myself up off the floor and got back into the chair I'd fallen from, I'd ask for specifics and want to discuss what his ideas were for improvement.

 

I’d ask what he wanted to do about it. I’d also want to bring his girlfriend into the conversation.